We all find different things useful and some babies take dislikes or likes to what others like! Children are all individuals, even when they are little tiny newborns! People seem to think that they have to follow certain routines, do certain things and even follow a line of weigh gain! To me, this is madness! My little man will roll over when he wants, talk when he wants, cry when he wants and weigh as much as he wants! In a group that I am in people are even obsessed with this “Leap” thing.. now I don’t know much about it.. but they are all hooked on the idea that there babies go through certain leaps at certain ages and they last for a said amount of time. For example they are mainly all going through “leap 4”? at the moment! I don’t have a clue what it means, but from reading what they say.. it basically means there baby cries constantly with nothing settling them.. they blame this all on leap 4. Some of them seem to be going crazy asking others for advice on what to do… my advice.. cuddle them, show them a toy, take them for a walk, change there nappy, give them some more milk.. or all the normal things that we try! They always come back with.. no they had milk an hour ago, nappy just changed they just wont stop crying.. to me this sounds crazy that they haven’t tried more milk! It to me is what I go to after trying all of the above, and generally it works straight away and he goes fast asleep! Babies can be hungry whenever they want, they are growing in all ways and that takes a lot of work! They all seem to think that there babies can only eat every four hours and will not be hungry again. Madness, right? Maybe because they have got these ideas planted in there minds, and thoughts they are obsessing and then stressing out about it so the baby then picks up on the bad vibes and upset of there mummies so it upsets them! I don’t know.. Do any of you guys follow this leap idea? Care to enlighten me about it! Do you agree that all babies should do the same things, at the same time and follow the weight & height “line”? Am I just extremely lucky that for the past few weeks my baby boy hasn’t been screaming his head off all the time without anything comforting him?
I would love to hear your thoughts!