These summer holidays are going fantastically!
I was so nervous about how Dylan would be with his routine being a little different, no school run in the morning and being with his sister twenty-four seven, but it is going fantastically. It seems to have came at such a perfect time.
We are all starting to understand Dylan a little more and Dylan is starting to learn that Amellia can sometimes be good fun to be around and she wont just steal his iPad or his food!
It is simply wonderful to see them playing together, interacting and laughing together. For a while Amellia found it very difficult to accept that her brother didn’t enjoy playing things how she would, or that he didn’t understand tag, taking turns or how building a tower together is fun and not to just knock over what she is building! She has learnt to adapt, she now plays with him how he understands.
They play simple things, like jumping on the sofa together (think we will replace them with trampolines), running back and forth across the room and throwing the balls about.
Amellia is a wonderful big sister, she has completely adapted how she plays with him and now knows that if she wants to play with him, she needs to enter his world rather than expecting him to understand what she wants to play.
When they are playing together she makes the same noises as him, encourages him to laugh and sneaks in little kisses and cuddles whenever she can! He really enjoys this, and will even go and take her hand whenever she stops playing to try and get her to carry on. Generally, he is pretty good at getting her to play again, he doesn’t take no for an answer and she enjoys running about like crazy and playing with her little brother.
The other day we took them both to a lovely little and quiet park. Dylan was having lots of fun doing his usual climb up the ladder and down the slide over and over again, until Amellia caught his eye. She was playing on a climbing net that spun. Instead of going back to the stairs and down the slide he went over and started running around with her spinning this, she then ran off to a see-saw and he followed and wanted to join her on this, after that she then ran off to another thing in the park and he joined her too! It was simply wonderful. There bond is growing, it took a while to start, for them both to accept each another for there differences but they seem to have really hit it off recently. As parents, this is simply wonderful.
Amellia always strived for a relationship with her brother and she is now slowly breaking down his wall and building her own with him.
I love my kids, they are simply incredible each in their own unique way. ❤