This week I had arranged with the lovely therapist that we would meet at the front desk so that we did not have to go into the waiting room with other people. This works well as he is her first appointment of the day, so she can ensure she is there promptly.
We arranged this because people being close to Dylan or looking at him causes him a lot of distress, so to have this 6-week course of DIS working as successfully as we can he needs to in a calm, happy and cooperative mood.
One thing that I must say is that parking is crazy here, so even though Dylan’s appointment wasn’t until 10:15 I went straight over after dropping Amellia at school! It took about 35 minutes going round and round the car park to finally find a space! Thankfully Dylan is really good in the car and he sat happily waiting until it was time to go in.
We went in and waited for all of about 2 minutes at the front desk before she appeared, which was fantastic! Dylan was then shown the spade for the sand and he was really excited going through the sets of doors to get to the room. He really enjoys playing in the sand so this is the task that he will always do at the start so that he begins with a positive and knows what to expect… Routine is key!!
He happily played in the sand, smiled when she sang her little song and it was going fantastically! Though this went well last time too, so I didn’t build my hopes up too much though it did give me a smile! She then showed him the next item.
After a little protest he was more than happy to take part in the next few things. They were posting tasks, and this is something that he really enjoys at home and I had told her last week. She aims to put things around the room that he enjoys so it makes moving from task to task an enjoyable thing for him. After finishing the posting activities, he then had to move to the next table.
He wasn’t as happy changing to this table as he was moving to the previous activities but with some gentle encouragement and sitting him on my knee for a few minutes he was then really enjoying the activities and I was able to move away. He then proceeded to colour match on several different occasions which was fantastic!
Finally, then he moved onto the last task before a quick play in the sand and going home.
This week’s DIS was a huge success and I am hoping that all the others will all go as smoothly now that he knows what to expect when he enters the room.
I think not having to go into the waiting room was a huge help and I am very glad that she has made changes to how she usually greets the children who attend to try and enable this to be a positive experience for Dylan!
Fingers crossed next week goes as well! =D