I thought we were getting somewhere with Dylan and his eating.
He had added pancakes and pork mince to his very short list of foods that he would actually eat happily and enjoy, though over the past few weeks slowly but surely foods what he will eat are being eliminated.
Rice Krispies are thankfully still being eaten for his breakfast unfortunately he eats his breakfast slower than a snail, but as long as he is eating something I am more than happy.
For lunch he used to enjoy some lightly buttered toast, but as of recent he just won’t eat it. I can leave it in front of him all day and he just wouldn’t touch it. I try to encourage him by taking a bite myself and making all the positives noises, I show it to him, everything… but he just won’t eat it anymore. Thankfully he will eat just plain dry bread sometimes, so his lunch has now been changed to dry bread when he will eat it.
Dinner, now this is where we are really struggling. He used to eat plain mince every dinner time and would really enjoy it, we then got able to add in pork mince and the occasional chips too! Now though… we are really struggling to get him to eat anything at all for his dinner. He has stopped eating his mince and will only eat a few chips.
For snacks there really isn’t a great deal either. He really enjoys spicy Doritos… odd choice yes but he does really enjoy them, quavers, mini caramel squares, fruit flakes… which we have been told not to give him anymore and to cut out of his diet as they are high in sugar, I thought I was being good giving him them as they are fruit but nope. Though I will not be cutting these out of his diet or making any effort to do so, I feel that at the moment trying to cut anything out of his diet would be a really stupid thing to do seeing as it is so minimal already. The squishy fruit pouches which we have also been told to cut out because of sugar but that also won’t be happening and then his most favourite snack and anyone that knows Dylan is sure to have seen him with one of these tightly held in his hand is a digestive biscuit! He would live off these if he could, we make sure that everywhere we go we have some with us as they really do help him settle sometimes, magic buiscuits!
We are really struggling with food at the moment and many people don’t understand how distressing this is. We often get told that well he isn’t wasting away so he is doing ok, and several things along those lines… I mean obviously he isn’t wasting away and if it ever gets to that stage we would have to seriously consider our options and do what was best for him and it is something that has crossed my mind recently with how quickly he is phasing out foods that he seemed to really enjoy.
To drink he really loves pure orange juice and thankfully doesn’t notice the supplement that we now put in it to make sure that he is getting all the vitamins that he needs, though again the dietician told us to try and water this down and phase it out because it is again high in sugar and we thought we were doing great with him drinking that and getting some fruit… doh!
We have an appointment with the dietician next week, and what I really want to gain from this is a repeat prescription for his supplements as I know that she won’t have any ideas for encouraging him to eat because last time she told us that it was up to the occupational therapist to offer advice as it is a sensory issue with Dylan. I am then hoping that I can then request an appointment just with the Occupational therapist as currently we only see her with the speech therapist so if we can see her more often hopefully we can get on the road to Dylan enjoying food as much as his sister does!
Do you have any tips, ideas or pointers?! Help!