These past few months Dylan has been slowly progressing, but over the past month it seems to all be coming together. We have many words now which is absolutely incredible seeing as every time he has been seen by his pediatrican we kept getting reminded that not all autistic children talk and not to get our hopes up. He can request things like his iPad, juice etc, it’s amazing to see and I have got a lot of hope for the future now and I’m sure his language skills will continue to develop and maybe one day we will be able to have a conversation with us! It gives us a lot of hope and really lifts spirits.
In school they have started to use pecs to help him move from one place to the next, his anxiety is brought down a lot with these pictures and I am now running about like crazy taking pictures of everywhere we go so that I can use them at home with him too. I am hoping it will help when out and about with him so that we can keep him calm and hopefully enjoying what we are doing rather than worrying about what is to come next.
He is starting to try new foods, well he has licked a yogurt and they are trying to encourage him to try new things in school via pictures and are going to get me some to try at home with him, which is a really exciting prospect. Dylan’s eating has always been a worry for me, as much as the dietician says it is fine because he isn’t losing weight it cannot be healthy for him and is not ideal. I would love to be able to just pick him up something when out and about but unfortunately at this moment in time that isn’t really attainable as he doesn’t eat very much at all especially for dinners and lunch. Maybe one day he will eat a sandwich, now that would be incredible!
He has also started to interact a lot more with Amellia and the other children he knows. He will ask them for races using his makaton that he is starting to pick up and what is even more amazing is that the kids around us are so great too him. They understand him really well and it is so great to see them running around together and enjoying each other’s company. Something again I wasn’t sure I would ever get to experience with him.
Something he has started to really enjoy also is playing mario, he is learning how to control him and enjoys walking him around the map. Before he just used to hold the button and laugh as he fell off the edge, which is funny.. but finding something he really enjoys doing and playing is great!
Obviously he still has his hard times, but I totally adore him and he is simply wonderful. I will continue to encourage his growth and I truly believe give a child the tools and encouragement they need and they will progress in there own time!
Oh what a positive post to read, Louise! That’s brilliant news! It sounds like Dylan is progressing quite quickly at the moment and it’s lovely he’s able to connect with other children and they are great with him too. It must feel amazing, I know it doesn’t mean everything is suddenly perfect and he will still have struggles and hard days but this is great news and must be such a relief xxx
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Yeah he is doing fantastic at the moment 😊
If a year ago I was told he would make all his profession I would have laughed in your face, but now anything is possible really 😁
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It’s great 😊 So pleased for you all! I’m sure he will keep shocking you all and progressing well! X
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Thanks so much 😄
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That’s awesome little things make a big difference ,😀💗
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Aw it’s so lovely to read how well Dylan’s doing. Well done family xx
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That’s great news. Delighted for you (and him obviously)
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What a lovely, positive post Louise! I’m so glad that little Dylan is making those first steps with his communication. Brilliant. 😊
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Thanks so much Sophie 😁 we are over the moon!
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