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2018 has gone too fast!

I hope 2019 goes slower than 2018, This year seems to have just flown by at an alarming rate and I’m not sure how I feel about it!
Adrian and myself have been married 5 years this January, Amellia is now 7 and Dylan is 4 next week!

They say time flies when your having fun, I think our time had flown because we have been so stressed and had so much going on! This year especially I feel like I havenโ€™t had a moment to think or process anything that has been going on.

Amellia has changed to a new school which is absolutely incredible, and in a completely different league to her old one.

Dylan has started nursery with a very rough start but seems to be enjoying the morning class a lot more so is sorted for a little while.

Amellia got referred to a paediatrician who we will be seeing in February, and has been seeing lots of therapists throughout the year.

Dylan got his official diagnosis and is now starting to say words! This time last year he didnโ€™t even attempt to say or make any meaningful noises so it is absolutely incredible. Never give up hope.

We added two little guinea pig buddies to our family who are totally adored by us all and have the quirkiest little personalities and enjoy squeaking at us every time the fridge is open.

Adrian & myself got out for one night together without the kids, drank too much and ended up forgetting half of the evening. What we can remember was a great time though and we thoroughly enjoyed.. next year if we get out together we will try and be more controlled with the drink. lol!

Amellia has shown us just how incredible she is at spelling and is making us super proud by achieving top marks every single week.

Dylan now has a huge love for Duplo and is constantly building towers bigger than himself and knocking them down.

To round it up, its been a very stressful year full with many high highs, and low lows. Hopefully 2019 will have a few more level moments for us to catch our breaths and we will be able to continue to do what is best for our kids and maybe if we are really lucky get two nights out together!

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Hello 2018.

Hello 2018

Hello 2018, nice to meet you.
I know your going to be a tough one, it isn’t going to be an easy ride and I can’t prepare myself or my family for what is to come.

One of my goals for 2018 is to try and put myself first more often, be it when buying the shopping getting the meal I really fancy even though it might not be Ads favourite or going out for a long walk by myself once he gets home from work if its been a tough day, or even grabbing a bite to eat with my sister.
I’m hoping that this will then help to keep my mind set straight as much as possible and that when it does start to fault I will know sooner and be able to reach out for the support I need before it gets really bad again.

Another thing I want to work on which is something I have always been useless at and I have asked Ad to work on too is talking about emotions.
We have so much going on and I think it is really important that we try to be as open as possible with each other about everything. How we feel, what’s upset us, when we need a break, if we just want to cry, no matter what it is we need to be open with each other.
Otherwise we wont make it through this.

To keep me smiling and to help find something positive in everyday even when its been the roughest day I started a little hashtag #inspirehappiness365.
I plan to do one post a day on Instagram for 365 days of the thing that made me happy and smile. This will help me to look for the positive in the rough and also remind me to post on Instagram at least once a day.
Your more than welcome to join in if you would like!

I hope you have a fantastic 2018 and you have set attainable goals rather than pie in the sky ones!

-WeeOhana