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DIS – Week 3

Parking today was a lot easier. One of the two parent spaces outside of the children centre was free, I mean why do they only have two near the place. If they had more hopefully all the adults just going to the doctors or an outpatients clinic wouldn’t park in the children centre car park and it would make easier parking for everyone attending the children’s centre!

As we walked in today she was already waiting for us by the door, fantastic! I  am ever so pleased with how accommodating she has been and it makes it a more positive experience for everyone. She gave Dylan the little spade that he uses in the sand and he ran right along to the room.. well past it a little and I had to redirect him but he was trying to find the right one. She opened the door and off he want straight to the sand smiling as she sang the little song and filling up the shapes with the sand.
Great, what a wonderful start, even better than last week. I was trying to contain my excitement as I knew the difficult part was coming up.
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She then showed him a piece of jigsaw to make him aware that it was time to go do some work. He went straight over from the sand to the next table without a fuss, he was very happy to change in-fact more than happy to change to the jigsaw and posting activities. I couldn’t believe my eyes and she then aided him in putting them away in the ‘all done’ box, and by his third task at this table he was then putting them in the box himself! How incredible!

Time to move to the water tray and he knew straight away that the fish meant the water tray so he ran straight over and proceeded to soak the lady and himself but all while having fun so that’s all that matters!

He wasn’t so pleased about leaving the water tray but with little encouragement and being shown what he was going to be doing at the next table made him more than happy to cooperate. At this table he did lots of colour matching which he is very good at and he really enjoys trying to say his colours. He also played with lentils at this table and thoroughly enjoys burying his hand.

Next up was the last station before it was time to go home, she showed him the train and off he went straight to the mat to play with the trains and pop up toys. It was then time to go after that.. he found leaving the most distressing today as he was having such a wonderful time!

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He was absolutely amazing at DIS today and it seems that week 2 was not just a fluke! It seems like such a strict routine really is key to helping Dylan. I also think that him being able to walk straight in without having to wait in the waiting room with others around his has been a huge help.
I can’t wait to see how the next three weeks go and then what they are going to do for him with this being such a success. I’m hoping it will mean that they will try to do some speech therapy on a lot more regular basis and some occupational therapy too.
Fingers crossed it keeps going so well and we will be offered more regular support after this!

What is DIS?
DIS week 1
DIS week 2

-WeeOhana

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DIS- Week 1

Before I start, if you missed me explaining what DIS is, check it out here then you will understand this blog a lot better.

I walked in feeling positive, we played in the waiting room… until another family came into the waiting room. Dylan started screaming, flapping, lashing out etc, so I took him out of the waiting room for a walk to calm him down and thankfully the lady arrived!

She showed him the spade for the sand and he was very happy, knew exactly t into the room and up to the sand. Perfect, I got my hopes up while I sat on the chair and watched him play in the sand and dancing along to the lady singing… but then it was time to change task.
She took his hand, showed him the object for the next task and led him over, kicking and screaming. She then asked if I could come and help her… by help her she meant hold Dylan still while trying to encourage him to do the task. Holding Dylan isn’t an easy task, he’s a lot stranger than he looks and when he is flailing around, screaming and grabbing at you it’s pretty hard to try and encourage him to do a task too!
She kept at it though and completed the tasks herself and kept showing him the different objects for the next task.

We got through 6 tasks like this, I’m not quite sure how I managed. It was tough, I have a very sore shoulder from battling with him like this on a daily basis but also mentally this was really hard. Having to restrain him while he is screaming to be free, having to try and encourage him to do things that he really didn’t care for, was very tough.
I had to keep telling myself that it was for his benefit, that it was to help him.

Thankfully she then brought out some dried lentils for him to play with and this settled him and he had lots of fun with these, then over to trains and some colour matching before the sand and home!

He managed to make it through 3 tasks out of 10 without having to be held and made to do them.
Let’s hope next week goes smoother.

Check out how week 2 went here!

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