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Fell off the wagon, back now.. Sorry!

First off, sorry it has been so long since I have blogged. We have had a lot going on and I kinda fell off the blogging band wagon, but here we go with an update and trying to get back on the band wagon.

Dylan currently does not have a school place, due to no school suitable having a place. This means that we are having to home school him for now until a place does come up but no one seems to be able to give us any clue of when a space may come up or offering us advice on what we should be doing with him while he is at home.
Mainly I have been trying to work on his self-help skills and eating. Encouraging him to learn how to turn the tap on, put soap on his hands and wash them properly, we attempted potty training again for a good few weeks and he just couldn’t get the whole needing to go thing so we have put that on the back burner for a while until he is ready and notices more of the signs. Making food a little fun with trying to encourage sensory play with food, just touching a new food before having one of his safe foods and getting out and about in the world.

He is starting to put weight back on instead of losing it so we are celebrating that greatly, even though it took 4 months to put 0.2kg on it is a plus instead of a loss. He now has the majority of his safe foods back, minus the mince but I am not giving up hope on that and have my fingers crossed it will be back shortly, or maybe some other form of meat and goodness!
Verbally he has came on, and it is incredible to watch him as when he was first seen we were told to not expect him to talk. His favourite thing to do is walk around counting, Dylan is at his happiest when numbers are involved. Encouraging his numbers in everyday situations and trying to do things that involve numbers but aren’t just counting or adding is something I have been trying to do. Sensory play but with numbers in that his has to get out, colouring in numberblocks, dot to dot to make a numberblock.. basically anything that I can put numbers into to encourage him to do it I am.
He has also have seen an OT recently which I wont go into here but will do another post about along with all the other things that have been going on with him and expanding on what I’ve already mentioned.

Amellia has started P4 and it is not going anywhere near as good as P3 went. She used to wish the weekends away so that she could hurry back to school to see her teacher and now she wants the weekends to never end. Neither are ideal, I mean I would much rather she enjoyed her weekends and her time in school so a happy medium of the two would have been perfect. Maybe one day she will find that, but for now I am reminding her I am here to chat to no matter how she feels and that if she keeps persevering it may start to get better sooner than she expects.

 

We have been enjoying a lot of family time and getting out and about together. I am hoping that the winter isn’t too wet so that we can keep exploring and enjoying these times together as indoor places are not Dylan’s favourite. Indoor places tend to be busy and noisy making it very hard to go as a family as what often happens is one of us ends up leaving early while one stays in with Amellia. This in turn causes upset to everyone as Amellia wants us to spend time together, Dylan ends in meltdown and as parents you feel guilty at having to go separate ways and defeated.

Here is to a winter where we can still go out in the open without getting too wet or cold and being back on the blogging band wagon as it is something I really enjoy!

-WeeOhana

 

 

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Sensory Pasta Play!

This morning we woke up to a cold and wet day! Horrible, especially when I have two little ones to entertain as school is out for half term!
I was trying to think on my toes of what to do with them that was a little different to the usual coloring or toys that we have! I decided on something sensory to try out, hoping that if my little man didn’t just dive in he would copy his sister and at least give it a try!

I hunted in the cupboards to see what I could find and I hunted out some pasta! Some sensory play, that isn’t to messy and wouldn’t stick to my little mans hands which is something he really doesn’t like! I had some swirly pasta and then i broke up some pasta sheets into a bowl.

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I then put the bowl on the floor and picked the pasta up and dropped it into the bowl so that it made a different noise and he came running out to see what was happening and he dove straight in! I was so happy, he was picking it up and running his hands through it all the time while laughing away. I then found a bigger container so that he could move them about a bit more and sit in it if he decided to.

He loved it, he was putting it between his toes, and even decided to take a little nibble on a bit which is truly incredible with his very strict diet and unwillingness to try anything different.

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A very simple sensory play, but it was very effective!
Next time I am out I am going to buy a few bags of different kinds of pasta and color them all different colors, so it is even more visual for him!
After a week or two of playing with the pasta I may start to put a few bits of cooked pasta in at a time, only a very small number at the start and then slowly building. I know slimy things are not his favorite and is the reason he wont eat several foods (ham,pasta,etc) so I am going to do it very slowly and hopefully he wont notice the change and will accept it very well! =]

weeohana xx