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Leaps & Bounds of progress!

These past few months Dylan has been slowly progressing, but over the past month it seems to all be coming together. We have many words now which is absolutely incredible seeing as every time he has been seen by his pediatrican we kept getting reminded that not all autistic children talk and not to get our hopes up. He can request things like his iPad, juice etc, it’s amazing to see and I have got a lot of hope for the future now and I’m sure his language skills will continue to develop and maybe one day we will be able to have a conversation with us! It gives us a lot of hope and really lifts spirits.

In school they have started to use pecs to help him move from one place to the next, his anxiety is brought down a lot with these pictures and I am now running about like crazy taking pictures of everywhere we go so that I can use them at home with him too. I am hoping it will help when out and about with him so that we can keep him calm and hopefully enjoying what we are doing rather than worrying about what is to come next.

He is starting to try new foods, well he has licked a yogurt and they are trying to encourage him to try new things in school via pictures and are going to get me some to try at home with him, which is a really exciting prospect. Dylan’s eating has always been a worry for me, as much as the dietician says it is fine because he isn’t losing weight it cannot be healthy for him and is not ideal. I would love to be able to just pick him up something when out and about but unfortunately at this moment in time that isn’t really attainable as he doesn’t eat very much at all especially for dinners and lunch. Maybe one day he will eat a sandwich, now that would be incredible!

He has also started to interact a lot more with Amellia and the other children he knows. He will ask them for races using his makaton that he is starting to pick up and what is even more amazing is that the kids around us are so great too him. They understand him really well and it is so great to see them running around together and enjoying each other’s company. Something again I wasn’t sure I would ever get to experience with him.

Something he has started to really enjoy also is playing mario, he is learning how to control him and enjoys walking him around the map. Before he just used to hold the button and laugh as he fell off the edge, which is funny.. but finding something he really enjoys doing and playing is great!

Obviously he still has his hard times, but I totally adore him and he is simply wonderful. I will continue to encourage his growth and I truly believe give a child the tools and encouragement they need and they will progress in there own time!

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School Progress!

We are into the fourth week of school now and Dylan has quickly had a turn in feelings towards school and now loves it! It’s so beautiful to see, I take him to the door and he takes his teachers hand without a second thought and off he goes with a quick wave goodbye. The change in him is amazing and I can’t wait to see how much he grows over this school year!
img_9764He has always had a really restrictive diet and stopped eating anything dairy about a year ago. This week in school they managed to get him to lick some yogurt!! I know it doesn’t sound much and is a strange thing to celebrate but we have been trying for a long time to get him back on yogurts to make sure he has having at least something dairy! Now is to try and get him trying a few more foods and maybe someday soon he will eat something rather than mince for dinner! I’m really excited at the prospect but i am going to stay realistic and him even just licking a food or even touching one is a huge cause for celebration in our house!

Amellia has settled in even more now and totally adores her new school, they really are going above and beyond to help her and it actually makes me so angry when I think of how little her previous school did and when she is saying things about what they did and how her new school is doing it, it’s bloody ridiculous. I’m extremely glad we moved her and just wish we had done it sooner. She is coming on leaps and bounds, they really get her and support her. She now has a 1:1 provided by the school until the Ed psychologist can come out and assess her and provide the school with funding for her to keep the current one on. They seem to get one really well and I’m looking forward to go and see the teacher in October to see how she has really settled in and what we can do at home to help her keep moving forward!

-WeeOhana