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Sorting & Painting!

We are currently trying to sort he house out.. a bit of a pre Christmas clear out/sort but also because we have far too many things. I am finding so many things hardly played with or even looked at that it is insane.

I’ve always been an impulse buyer and when I’m feeling low I love a good shopping spree to spoil the kids, as not much makes me feel better than there smiling little faces. Though when it comes down to it, they have so much they do not need. I also found that with Dylan I was buying him toys that he should be playing with for his age but in reality he has no interest in at all. I guess it was a bit of false hope, but having came a long way mentally with accepting it all I am now starting to realise just how much of a waste it is and how unnecessary it is. I have been selling a few bits online but the majority I have been taking to charity shops so that other little ones can enjoy them too.

Going through the cupboards too I have found some amount of random things I didn’t even realise existed .. let alone in my house! I’m trying to sort out and not replace with more random stuff that we don’t use nor need. We are trying to only buy what we need and will use, especially with wanting to move house in the future, I’d rather not have to move stuff that we don’t use or having to sort out while we are trying to pack to move.

This Christmas I am going for quality not quantity, Amellia is really into arts and crafts, baking and things like that so I’m going to get her things that can be thoroughly enjoyed and then disappear rather than just sitting in a drawer unloved a month after Christmas then as soon as you mention getting rid of them they act like they play with them all the time. Dylan I am going to go for educational toys, as they are what he really enjoys. Numbers and letters are his top priority along with colours and shapes, I am also thinking of getting him a wee Pram and baby as they have said in school he plays with them everyday and it really helps to promote imagination play.

We are also giving all the rooms a fresh lick of paint as we get them sorted, first to get done was the bathroom and it looks absolutely amazing. I am so impressed with it and it has given me a kick up the arse to get everywhere else all sorted and sitting lovely!

 

What are your top sorting hints and tips?

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Our First Speech Therapy

Last week we went to Dylan’s first speech therapy, though it was a different lady who had seen him at the CDC clinic so it was a review for her to decide what she thought was the best plan of action! She has decided that he would really benefit from some joint therapy with the occupational therapist as well as the speech therapist at the same time. She hopes that this will start before Easter but can’t be too sure, so I have my fingers crossed that we hear sooner rather than later about it starting so that we can get cracking! She was a lovely lady and gave me some tips and things to try with him along with lots of advice which I am going to share with you all! =]

When we first went in she asked a few questions then played with him, tried to encourage him to do certain tasks and to see how he got on with all the things she had prepared for the day. She did a game with him which was putting some bean bags in a post box type thing, which he really loved. When this task was over and she put it away Dylan couldn’t handle it and went into full meltdown mode.. luckily enough my hubby had came along too so took him back to the car while I chatted with her about the best actions to take to encourage speech.

The first thing she told me shocked me, she said that she isn’t going to work on his speech for now.. it is all about his concentration, engagement, interacting and eye contact. To me I was a little taken back by this, but they have to be able to do these things before speech will come or speech therapy will really work for them! So I have lots of ways of trying to do this and have a long list of toys that I will need to purchase to help!

She also said that his depth perception is very bad, so to try and do lots of things that encourage climbing, pulling out chairs to sit on, and grabbing items off the floor. Lots of that sort of thing to help him, I wasn’t aware but apparently it is very common in autistic children!

The toys which she has advised me to get are lots of simple, easy toys. She said that it is better if he can very easily do the toy and it to have lots of parts. For example today I got him a ring stack. So I then sit, or even better lay on the floor with him while he is doing this he is doing this, and give him one ring at a time to put on, he then has to engage with me to get the next ring. Even if it is just him coming over and me giving him the ring, he is starting to learn that to get the things he wants/needs he has to engage with people! Another thing to do with the ring stack is that I put the part they go onto on top of the sofa and then bring him to the other side of the room with me and give him the first ring, he then has to climb on the sofa which is working on his depth perception and then come back to me get the next one etc!

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I got told as well when I am playing with him to spend a lot of the time laying on the floor behind what he is playing with, she said then that they will catch a glimps of your eyes and make very short eye contact now and then and hopefully will build up to longer periods of times! Unfortunately we have just had laminate flooring put down so it isn’t the comfiest, but needs must!

We also have been advised to buy a lot of different cause and effect toys, so that he learns when he does something it will have a reaction, and that when he wants something he has to do something to get it! I have got him a pop up toy for this, the kind where you turn the handle and a cow pops up, turn the other handle and a dog pops up etc!

To encourage him to interact with us we have been advised to only put a little bit of juice in his juice cup and get him to learn that he has to bring it to us to get more, so that way he will be engaging with us and getting what he wants back. If we only put a little bit of juice in it is then encouraging him to have to do it more often and get him used to it! Another way to encourage this is to teach him that the remote controller turns on the tv, so that when he wants the tv on he can bring us the remote and other things like that!

There are many other toys and things that she has told me to get for him, but I think he will be able to make do with what i bought until next pay day! Dam toys are expensive! >.<
Her main thing was that we keep the toys all easy and simple so that he can do them himself, doesn’t get frustrated at them and really enjoys them! Dylan is like a lot of other autistic children and likes lots of repetitive play, so if its something he can do easily over and over again without getting frustrated it is great! Especially if its working on his depth perception and even more so if he is having to engage too! =]

Here is what I ended up with today for Dylan! =]
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What cause and effect toys do your little ones enjoy?
WeeOhana xx